I was taught never to look down.
Chin up.
Back straight.
Confidence is posture
and posture is proof
you matter.
Only the unimportant look at their feet,
they said.
Only the small do that.
And nothing burns like being told
you are not worth a glance,
like your presence itself
is a mistake to be hidden.
So I walk like I own the place—
but it’s a conscious effort,
a war waged in my neck and shoulders.
My head held high
not because I feel worthy,
but because someone told me
I would never be.
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Even when it hurts,
even when every step
feels like dragging a body through fire,
I keep my eyes forward,
because looking down
is surrender.
Because if I look down,
all the voices that said
I’m not enough
win.
I force myself to rise.
To stand tall.
To look straight ahead
even when I want to crumble.
I walk like confidence is a language
I haven’t mastered
but am determined to speak.
Every step
is a refusal
to let shame
drag me to the ground.
I walk with my head held high,
not because I believe it fully—
not yet—
but because I am trying,
trying
so hard
to become someone
who doesn’t have to pretend.
And one day,
maybe I won’t have to try at all.
One day,
my posture will be proof
of what I already know:
I am here.
I am visible.
I am enough.

